Good morning!
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​Here's a Saturday edition of Friday Five- because sometimes life has other plans!

Last week, we kicked off our friendship series with five foundational skills for being a good friend. This week, we’re tackling one of the harder parts of friendship: feeling left out.

As a parent, it can be especially hard to watch our kids experience this.

But feeling left out is something everyone experiences at times—even us adults.

So let’s look at how we can help our kids handle those hard feelings with confidence and perspective.

Here are 5 things to remind your child when they feel left out:

1. It’s okay to feel hurt. Being left out doesn’t feel good, and it’s okay to be disappointed.
2. Perspective matters. As I tell my manners class students, “Not everyone can be invited to everything.” There will be times that we aren’t included in an activity, event, or plan. And while it may not feel good, it’s a part of life.
3. Talk it through with someone you trust. Parents, grandparents, and teachers have been through plenty of friendship ups and downs. Sometimes a little perspective from someone who knows and loves you can really help.
4. Have a variety of friends. Build friendships in different parts of life: school, sports, clubs, church, and the neighborhood. Remind your child that they don’t have to rely on just one group- some of the best friendships can grow in unexpected places.
5. Take the lead. Be proactive instead of always waiting to be included. Making plans, reaching out, and inviting others takes practice. It’s a confidence-building skill that will serve kids well in all areas of life.

🏠 This week's family conversation starter:​
​“What is one thing you can do in the next few days to help someone feel included?”

I’m cheering you on, Mom!

All my best,
Dawn

P.S. Do you have an elementary-aged child? I’m working on a fun new snail mail club to help children build confidence and reinforce good manners. 📫Click here for updates!​